Do Women Just Care About Money and Looks
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Date: Sat, 6 Dec 2008 |
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Many men think the only way to attract women is to be very good looking or to make a lot of money. They are cynical about the dating world in general and view women as at the core, quite shallow. These men think women are only attracted to men who are physically or financially attractive. Often, very eligible men just sit and home and pout instead of putting themselves out there on the dating market. They would rather just watch television than approach women and deal with potential rejection.
Relax, men. Women are actually not that shallow; they are quite easier to impress than men actually! What impresses women more than anything is confidence. A pretty, wealthy man will actually do worse in the dating scene than his more modest counterpart if the attractive man acts scared whereas the more modest man acts confident and outgoing.
The science of attraction is largely based on our cavemen days. Back when men and women lived in caves and men hunted large mammals for food, women were very dependent on men to take care of them. While a good looking man was a sign of a healthy man or a man with a lot of resources could probably take care of them, confidence as a whole was a signal to women that the man knew what he was doing and could look after them. Essentially, confidence was the ultimate signal that a man would make a good mate and protector, whereas other information were just details.
The advantage of good looks and/or making a lot of money is not so much what they bring to a relationship as they help build a man's confidence. While confidence is just a state of the mind, it is not something that can be faked. Women can sense a confident man from one who doubts himself. So if making more money or working out some more is what it takes for you to believe in yourself, then all the power to you. Just realize though that these are just a means to an end, they are not the end goal in of itself.
If you do not view yourself as a catch to women, they will not view you as a potential boyfriend. While it may some narcissistic, write down what you think makes you a good person. Read it to yourself over and over again. Over time, you'll grow an inner confidence that women will find very attractive.
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